Relationship Tips: How to become a 'Relationship Activist'
Do you:
If you said 'yes' to these then you're probably well on the way to being a relationship activist. But instead of always feeling lonely and stuck you could get a whole new slant on things.
Flick open most women's magazines and you'll see lots of relationship tips on how to make time for your relationship, increase the romance or fire up your sex life. Surely, putting all that you read into practice will make a difference .... so why doesn't it? Why does it often feel like a nightmare?
Because there is a lot more to being a relationship activist than having more romance and better sex - you will get that too, if you desire it.
This means saying 'No' to just patching over the cracks, and instead committing to and engaging in a deeper process in order to build a long-lasting relationship that will take you places you have only dreamed of.
As with anything in life, we get results where we put our attention. Relationships are no different, and the great news is that like a good investment, what you put in grows and pays you back over time.
Essential relationship tips:
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- Spend hours thinking about what your relationship needs next?
- Invest lots of time and energy in your relationship?
- Talk repeatedly to others about relationship issues?
If you said 'yes' to these then you're probably well on the way to being a relationship activist. But instead of always feeling lonely and stuck you could get a whole new slant on things.
Flick open most women's magazines and you'll see lots of relationship tips on how to make time for your relationship, increase the romance or fire up your sex life. Surely, putting all that you read into practice will make a difference .... so why doesn't it? Why does it often feel like a nightmare?
Because there is a lot more to being a relationship activist than having more romance and better sex - you will get that too, if you desire it.
First, your relationship and its positive potential needs to become a central focus of your creative life.
This means saying 'No' to just patching over the cracks, and instead committing to and engaging in a deeper process in order to build a long-lasting relationship that will take you places you have only dreamed of.
As with anything in life, we get results where we put our attention. Relationships are no different, and the great news is that like a good investment, what you put in grows and pays you back over time.
Next, you must realise that a long-term, fulfilling intimate relationship is something you create over time, and like a cherished garden, this commitment will bear fine fruit.
Essential relationship tips:
- Stop being afraid of conflict and disappointment, it’s like air turbulence on a flight, and you can go through it. Fasten your seatbelt and stay curious!
- Focus on how you bring the best out in your partner, without compromising or sacrificing yourself; if it feels like slavery, you’ve got the emphasis wrong.
- Try to keep curious about your partner, not thinking you ever fully know them. Do you fully know yourself?
- Never stop appreciating each other for being willing to try to build a loving relationship. And often you are going to need support form others.
- You don't have to be perfect. Remember the film 'Groundhog Day'? Keep starting over when you get it wrong.
- Don’t be afraid to seek support with your relationship problems; it's a sign of commitment and courage, not of failure, as some think.
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